Life is funny, when I started this blog I wanted this year to be the best, it was going to be memorable, full of fun filled times and new experiences and that's exactly what I got. Although I had hoped for a more smooth sailing type year rather than what it turned out to be which was a roller coaster ride. Most importantly though, I was not on this ride alone.
I look forward to the New Year, but I don't have any resolutions. Every resolution I've made, I ended up blowing anyway and how many times can I hope to lose weight. So next year I just want to enjoy things as they happen, keep my expectations at a minimum, leaving enough room for any surprises both good and bad that may come my way.
That weekend began with driving out to Antelope Valley with Steve’s mom and her boyfriend to hang with his sister and her family. This year was her year to host the family holiday get together. We alternate between her and us. So next year will be my year and I am already planning for a big fete. I’m hoping we get our dream dining room table by then. There is this really rustic piece that I want and since it is wood, and wood is the traditional gift for a 5th year wedding anniversary, we plan on getting that together instead of individually gifting each other with something. My style is modern, but I think the rustic element of the table will add extra warmth and charm to our living/dining room area.

It was a lazy day of chit chatting, eating, and what else, playing a lot of Rockband. Steve’s sister bought the game right after she came over and had a chance to experience the awesomeness of the game. We had the nephews on bass and guitar, I was on drums and Steve was the lead singer. We rocked Stone Temple Pilots’ song Vaseline. We didn’t spend the night there and headed out at about 11pm.

The next day, we went to meet my friend H and her boyfriend for some German food. We had brunch at Alpine Village Inn. We had our little gift exchange and ate a whole bunch of sausages aka wieners (I laugh every time I say that). There were a ton of cold and warm dishes to choose from as well as several different types of desserts and free flowing champagne for $15 a person. Now that's a steal. For the place being so close to home, we have never had brunch there. H’s boyfriend is German/American so he has been there many times and picked the place. It was a good choice. I really liked the black forest cake. We stopped at the deli next store, to pick up some wieners to take home and looked for some German Gewürztraminer wine, but we found only one, without several choices to choose from we passed on it. But we came home full and happy.

Christmas eve, we headed to Steve’s grandmother’s house in OC for his dad’s side of the family’s traditional holiday celebration. There were lots of little kiddies running around and of course everyone was asking us “when do you plan on having kids”, my reply this time, was “we’re ready whenever”. So that made everyone excited and after all these years, they might actually get to meet our creation……one day. We caught up with his cousins, Aunts and Uncles, but his grandma retired early into her bedroom. She has been in and out of the hospital since Thanksgiving, so she wasn’t feeling all that good. She was a delight to see, even though it was for short minute, but I could tell that she looked a bit frailer than the last time I saw her at the family reunion.
After that, we came home and opened all our presents. I made out like a bandit, Steve does not disappoint in the gift giving category. I received lots of fun stuff. Although, only 2 things were from my list, the rest was still very thoughtful and just what I needed.
Some of my favorite things were the cookbooks that I received (we are big into cook books) and the ultimate cooks' tool, the knife. I don't own a whole array of knives. I have my one chef's knife and a paring knife. But with the skills I've acquired through the years it was time for me to upgrade to a professional grade knife. I've been looking into getting a MAC (recommended by chef Marcus Sammuelson), Shun (a Japanese company that use to make samurai swords), or Global (highly recommended by Anthony Bourdain). But what I discovered under the tree was a MAC knife. It was beautiful and the blade on that thing is sharp as hell.

[barefoot contessa at home, thanks Jolene!!!]
[all about braising]
Other fun stuff from Steve:
Dwell bedding:

Pendleton blanket (big Pendleton fan, we now own 4):
A flash for my camera (thanks Brian for guiding Steve with this purchase):

Wreck This Journal: It's great fun, "perfect for the perfectionists" like myself. It's already taught me to loosen up a little.

Christmas morning, we invited his dad over for some home cooked breakfast of french toasts and the sausages we purchased from the German deli. We exchanged a few gifts and the rest of the day was spent on cleaning, watching tv, surfing the web, and dreading going to work the next day. I hoped everyone had a wonderful holiday!!!!



















